Are there gifts of broken dreams? Is it possible that God has tucked hidden gifts and blessings into our broken dreams?
Here is a sneak peek of my guest post for Rachael K Adams where I share a glimpse of my experience with broken dreams and how God worked to redirect my identity.
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My Greatest Dream Shattered
I sat in the ashes with the broken pieces of what I thought would bring me happiness and fulfillment.
By shattering my greatest dream in this period of my life, God shattered my heart, but not with the intent to destroy it.
He aimed to mend it and redirect it. Every shattered piece, every debris, needed to be cleaned, reshaped, and then put together again by the God of restoration.
One large broken piece was my search for happiness. I had made my dream of becoming a mother a condition for a fulfilled life.
My Dream Had Turned Into an Idol
Becoming a mother had turned into an idol. My beautiful dream had morphed into an ugly monster called controlling desire. In the center of my thoughts and aspirations was not God (although I wanted him), but the idol of motherhood.
There was not a day, an hour, in at least five years in my life, when I had not thought about this. This desire was the filter through which I perceived everything. It dictated my values, happiness, and peace.
The fulfillment of this dream was my chief motivation and driving force for a long time. It blinded me and controlled me.
The Gifts of Broken Dreams
There are gifts hidden in broken dreams when we are willing to let God work in our hearts, purify us, and mature us. Read the rest of the post at rachalekadams.com.
Broken Dreams Can Become the Birthplace of Blessings
If you want to learn more about how God used my broken dreams and other painful experiences to transform and bless me, my book,“Draw Near: How Painful Experiences Become the Birthplace of Blessings,” is for you.
Let me take you on a journey through 13 painful experiences, showing losses and the precious blessings in each of them.
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If you need more resources, encouragement, and comfort when you go through pain, grief, and despair, I can highly recommend these books. Check them out.
Trusting God in All the Things: 90 Devotions for Finding Peace in Your Every Day by Karen Ehman and Ruth Schwenk
Make Up Your Mind: Unlock Your Thoughts, Transform Your Life by Denise Dubois Pass and Michelle Nietert
Life Can Be Good Again by Lisa Appelo
It’s Not Supposed to Be This Way by Lisa Terkeurst
Hope When Life Unravels: Finding God When It Hurts by Adam Dooley
Restoration Year – a 365 Days Devotional by John Eldredge
All Things New by John Eldredge
Hope for the Hard Days by Sarah Geringer
Lean into Grace by Stacey Pardoe
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Your Turn
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Your writings are such a gift to the world. You inspire so much hope, and without hope, well the world can become very dire. Thanks for sharing your insights about the gifts of broken dreams, and congratulations on your guest posting!
Thanks for your encouraging words, Julie! Yes, I want to be a hope-bringer and lift up weary hearts.
Beautiful post on seeing the gifts of broken dreams. The older I get and see that my life wasn’t the way I planned but it’s God’s plan and there are unexpected blessings each day.
This is true wisdom, Debbie – I am glad that you see your life from this perspective!
Your post on “The Gifts of Broken Dreams” was incredibly moving. Your insights deeply touched me on finding strength and beauty in disappointment.
Thanks a lot! I am glad the post resonated with you. Blessings to you, friend!
Thanks for sharing your insight about how God can use our broken dreams. So inspiring!
Thanks a lot. Crysti! I am glad the post inspired you. Blessings to you!
It’s so true that God can turn broken dreams into unexpected gifts. Thank you for sharing this reflective, thought-provoking post. At the time when a dream is shattered, it’s tough to have an eternal perspective. Thank you for helping me look at shattered dreams through a different lens.
Thanks, Lisa! I think it is a life-long journey – walking with God and learning to see things here through the lens of faith and eternity. Blessings!
Thank you for these powerful reminders, Hadassah. Reframing our deepest losses and disappointments in the light of God’s Truth sure does change everything!
Thanks, my friend! Yes, we need to bring our losses and pains into God’s light and let Him work in our brokenness. Blessings!